Friday, September 5, 2008

un-official girl

cassie's new single "official girl" is kinda hot. she's obviously taken some time to get her voice and dancing skills together and it shows. the song is basically about going public with a relationship. one could say that cassie is singing this song to her un-official man diddy.



but anyway, this song got me to thinking...i'm always an un-official girl! almost every relationship i've had has never been public and somewhat hidden....i've never really had a normal, adult relationship. and at 25 years old that's super sad.

each of these relationships had a reason why it was un-official, like he already had a public and official girl (hey, don't judge...i don't do that anymore anyway) or to avoid the drama of having a public relationship (my friends wouldn't approve of some of the people i have dated). but sometimes it was just easier to keep things hush hush....i'm already a private person so it felt more natural for me to just keep this aspect of my life private anyway.

but this song really makes me want my next relationship to be official.....besides, being un-official really messes with your self-esteem.

here's cassie's "official girl" for listening pleasure.

Official Girl (2oo8) - Cassie

has anyone else been an un-official girl?

stay fab!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love love love this song I downloaded the orginal and the remix. I like that video too cux it really shows off her first love.

Always Fabulous said...

ah yes...her first love of modeling! She really is a hot chick...but you have to admit her voice is soooo much better this time around!